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section 1
As we conclude this spiral staircase of communication in which we are aiming to implement speaking Truth in Love ephesians 4:15 so as to build each other up and in order to bind us all together in unity by proper commUNIcation i john 1:7 . We are thoughtful of what we should communicate proverbs 15:28 , as we make the most of the opportunity of the moment colossians 4:5-6 for the purpose of glorifying God and benefiting others i corinthians 10:31-11:1 as we respond to other’s needs by carefully paying attention in our listening proverbs 18:13 james 1:19 and being open-hearted in our relations with one another ii corinthians 6:11-13 in a generally straightforward manner matthew 5:33-37 james 5:12 matthew 10:16 .
Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into Christ Himself, Who is the head.
But if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.
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The heart of the godly thinks carefully before speaking; the mouth of the wicked overflows with evil words.
Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person.
So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God. Give no offense to Jews or Greeks or the church of God, just as I also try to please everyone in everything, not seeking my own benefit, but the benefit of many, so that they may be saved. Imitate me, as I also imitate Christ.
My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger...
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We have spoken freely to you, Corinthians, and opened wide our hearts to you. We are not withholding our affection from you, but you are withholding yours from us. As a fair exchange—I speak as to my children—open wide your hearts also.
"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.’ But I say to you, Do not take an oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is His footstool, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. And do not take an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil.
But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your "yes" be yes and your "no" be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.
"I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.
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section 2
So, we should communicate properly with all these virtuous factors being cultivated in our character hosea 10:12 galatians 5:16, 22-23, 25, 6:7-10 . For it is unto us to put His Word into practice james 1:22-25 hebrews 5:13-14 so as to learn how to properly communicate the Truth in Love i corinthians 14:40 ecclesiastes 8:5-6 . For we should remember that eternity hangs in the balance as we communicate proverbs 18:21 , as well as partaking in the Divine ii peter 1:4 i peter 4:11 .
Sow for yourselves righteousness; reap steadfast love; break up your fallow ground, for it is the time to seek the LORD, that He may come and rain righteousness upon you.
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But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.
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Do not merely listen to the Word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the Word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.
For everyone who partakes only of milk is not accustomed to the Word of righteousness, for he is an infant. But solid food is for the mature, who because of practice have their senses trained to discern good and evil.
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Whoever obeys his command will come to no harm, and the wise heart will know the proper time and procedure. For there is a proper time and procedure for every matter, though a person may be weighed down by misery.
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.
...He has granted to us His precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire.
If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.
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section 3
So let our communication be proper in that we grow in tact daniel 2:14 ; that is the skill to communicate beneficially even in difficult situations i timothy 3:15 colossians 4:5-6 i chronicles 12:32 . Growing in discretion to know ecclesiastes 3:1, 7 i corinthians 8:1-2 what is beneficial to communicate i corinthians 10:24 ephesians 4:29 , what not to communicate john 16:12 proverbs 12:23 proverbs 11:12-13 , when to communicate proverbs 25:11 and how to communicate proverbs 15:1 titus 1:13 .
For if we learn to communicate by the principle of Truth and Love ii john 6 proverbs 10:32 we need not fear the results of our efforts i samuel 2:9 ephesians 2:10 isaiah 52:12 isaiah 58:8 , but rather go forward confidently proverbs 28:1 that God will take our meager, obedient efforts to accomplish what He intends proverbs 16:1 isaiah 55:10-11 i corinthians 3:7-8 to glorify Himself ephesians 3:14-21 romans 11:36 and give us our share in His glory romans 8:17 ephesians 4:15 .
When Arioch, the commander of the king’s guard, had gone out to put to death the wise men of Babylon, Daniel spoke to him with wisdom and tact.
but in case I am delayed, I write so that you will know how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and support of the truth.
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Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person.
Of Issachar, men who had understanding of the times, to know what Israel ought to do, 200 chiefs, and all their kinsmen under their command.
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:
a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,
Now about food sacrificed to idols: We know that "We all possess knowledge." But knowledge puffs up while love builds up. Those who think they know something do not yet know as they ought to know.
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Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
The prudent keep their knowledge to themselves, but a fool’s heart blurts out folly.
It is foolish to belittle one’s neighbor; a sensible person keeps quiet. A gossip goes around telling secrets, but those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence.
Like apples of gold in settings of silver Is a word spoken in right circumstances.
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This testimony is true. Therefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith,
And this is love, that we walk according to His commandments; this is the commandment, just as you have heard from the beginning, so that you should walk in it.
The lips of the righteous know what is appropriate, but the mouth of the wicked, only what is perverse.
He will guard the feet of His faithful servants, but the wicked will be silenced in the place of darkness. "It is not by strength that one prevails...
For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
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For you shall not go out in haste, and you shall not go in flight, for the LORD will go before you, and the God of Israel will be your rear guard.
Then shall your light break forth like the dawn, and your healing shall spring up speedily; your righteousness shall go before you; the glory of the LORD shall be your rear guard.
The plans of the heart belong to man, but the answer of the tongue is from the LORD.
As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is My Word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to Me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.
So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, Who makes things grow. The one who plants and the one who waters have one purpose, and they will each be rewarded according to their own labor.
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For this reason I kneel before the Father, from Whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name. I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
Now to Him Who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.
For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. To Him be glory forever. Amen.
Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in His sufferings in order that we may also share in His glory.
Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into Christ Himself, Who is the head.
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